Text: Esther 5:9-13, Philippians 2:3&4
Memory Verse: “Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others” (Philippians 2:4).
Self-absorption is an unhealthy preoccupation with oneself, being overly concerned with one’s own needs, desires and achievements while disregarding others. It manifests as selfishness, pride, or a constant need for attention. People who are self-absorbed often dominate conversations, crave recognition and struggle to celebrate others.
Haman in the book of Esther is a classic example. He was obsessed with himself, boasting to his wife and friends about his wealth, status, the number of his sons, and the special recognition he received from the king. He even bragged that Queen Esther invited only him to a private banquet with the
king! When King Ahasuerus asked, “What should be done for the man the king delights to honour?” Haman immediately thought, “Who else but me?” (Esther 6:6). His world revolved around himself.
Yet, despite all his accolades, he was miserable because Mordecai, the Jew sitting at the king’s gate, did not bow to him. Haman could not enjoy any of his blessings while harbouring envy and pride. His self-absorption blinded him, and ultimately led to his downfall.
Are you like Haman, consumed by the “Me, Me” syndrome? Take a hard look at yourself today. Ask God for help to shift your focus. Practice selflessness, listen more, talk less about yourself and show genuine interest in others. True greatness lies in humility and service. Flee self-centredness, it steals joy, hinders growth and damages relationships. Let Christ be the centre in everything, not self.
Prayer Points:
1. Father, please help me to be genuinely interested in others.
2. Father, give me grace to overcome self-absorption.